Mas Duda Looking For Mom Milk
The Image that is Tantrum
A few days changed and today it seems that Citra woke up feeling bad. Unlike usual, Citra once awake immediately crying. In fact, Citra is already in the phase she rarely cries and can even adapt at home with her two sisters very well. However, now Citra once awake is already crying.
As for Anaya, morning is the most hectic time with three children at home, of which two are still babies. Fortunately, now is the weekend so there is Papa Tama who does not rush to work. Thus, Anaya takes care of Charel and Charla, while Papa Tama takes care of Citra.
"Good morning, Papa's daughter ...."
Well and Tama is trying to improve the mood of Citra this morning. Gently greeting her son and also immediately hugging the crying Citra on her bed.
Not answering it, in fact, Citra still cries with her tears that continue to linger. When the Papa was about to hold him, apparently Citra refused.
"Sir Why are you crying?"
"Partner needs Mama .. want Mama," she replied sobbing. The little boy cried until his face turned red, and his cheeks were wet with tears.
"Sama Papa used to be well, Mama still bathed Twins. Sis Citra Sama Papa yuk? Come on, let's do some morning activities. What do you want to do before taking a shower?" ask Papa Tama who is indeed being so patient with Citra.
"No ... The image wants the same Mama," he replied.
The image then came down from her bed and headed into the master room, seeing her Mama who bathed Charel and Charla alternately, also dressing the two. The image of seeing with tears.
"Why Do You Want to Lovely Mama?" ask Anaya.
"Partner wants to be with Mama" she replied.
"Before sometime ... Mama's done to put socks on for sister first, so it's not too cold. Three minutes well," replied Anaya who occasionally turned to look at Citra.
As soon as the Mama had finished with duo C, then Mama Anaya opened her arms and hinted to hug Citra. "Here, hugged Mama first .. Why her daughter Mama? Kok early in the morning was crying anyway," he replied by hugging Citra so tightly.
"Kangen Mama ... The image needs Mama," she responded by crying in her Mama's arms.
Tama who just looked so touched. In her heart, Tama was sure that the two of them loved each other very much. When Tama himself wants to calm Citra, the daughter is looking for Mama Anaya. Even so Mama Anaya, once the affair with Duo C was finished, she gave time to Citra first.
"Papa nitip Charel and Charla first yeah ... Mama wants to be with Citra first," said Anaya.
Tama nodded her head slowly, she was the year that now Anaya was validating her feelings and emotions. Because, not usually Citra wake up early and cry like this. However, now Citra is crying and the person she is looking for is her Mama.
Finally, Tama took Duo C to the playroom. Anaya and Citra are still in her room.
"Mama, why does Mama keep the same sister?" ask Citra later.
"Yes Darling .. His sisters Citra Kak is still small, still need Mama to be bathed, drunk ASI, carried, later also the sister will start eating which is also bribed Mama. Why Honey?" ask Anaya. This question is given so that Citra can answer and express her feelings.
"Kan Citra kangen Mama ... The image wants to play with Mama," he replied.
"Sorry well Darling .. is the time Mama also divided first. Mama will still love and can play with Kak Citra. We grew up together. There are Papa, Mama, Kak Citra, and Duo C, in this house we grow together," said Anaya who tried to give an explanation to Citra.
"How much time is Mama?" ask Citra later.
Anaya smiled there, and then took Citra, "Mama's time in a day is only 24 hours, Darling. All the time you have for all of you."
Such was Anaya, all the time she had was devoted to her children and husband. It could even be said that Anaya rarely had the time to herself. Because, indeed, can see the three children healthy and grow together, Anaya already feel happy.
"Then, when's his big brother?"
"The baby's growth is slow Citra. In the past, Kak Citra was also a baby like that, Mama gave ASI and MPASI until slowly Kak Citra can grow this big, even later it can be bigger than Mama," replied Anaya.
Slowly Citra nodded her head and hugged her Mama, "Partner dear Mama," she said by burying her head in Mama's chest.
Anaya smiles and kisses Citra's head, "Mama also loves Citra .. sorry well, not Mama is not attentive, but the time is indeed divided first."
"Yes Mama .. later if the brothers bobok temenin Citra play yes Ma ... The image wants to play with Mama," she asked by showing her eyes were so clear.
"Definitely Honey .. every day is also so. If Duo C had slept, surely Mama would immediately invite Citra to play together," he replied.
"Yes Mama" Citra replied with a nod of her head.
"Now Brother Citra, want to take a shower? It's morning, later after this breakfast yuk with Mama and Papa," he asked Citra.
"You took a shower, but you took a bath, Mama," Citra asked this time.
Finally Anaya began to bathe Citra, the young Mama looked painstakingly cleaning the body Citra with soap, incubating her hair. They often laugh in the bathroom. After bathing Citra, then Anaya clean the remaining water in the body Citra by using a towel and also give telon oil on the body Citra and put clothes on.
"The image of Mama's love," said Citra again once the Mama has finished bathing, dressing, and brushing her hair.
"Yes, Mama also loves Citra. Mama's affection for Kak Citra and the sisters is just as great, just the time is divided well," he replied.
Yes, the time has to be divided. There are times when it should hold the baby, but still while accompanying the image of playing or reading a book. There are times while nurturing Citra, but also while giving ASI to Duo C.
"Yes Mama ... The image is no longer crying" she replied.
"Well, good .. thanks Citra is not crying anymore. Love her sisters too?"
"Yes, the same image of Charel and Charla kok Mama, but the most affectionate image of Mama," he replied by hugging Mama Anaya again.
That is the way of care in the family. There are times when the Eldest sulks, there are times when the youngest sulks. It is important to validate the feelings and emotions of the child. Ask him carefully, try to get the child to express his feelings, then pacify with a cool head and not emotion, then apologize and say affection for the children.
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