Mas Duda Looking For Mom Milk
Mental Health Busui
It did not feel like a week had passed, and in this week Anaya was able to adapt to babysitting and also Citra together. It is not alone, because there is Mama Rina who always helps Anaya. The presence of Mama Rina at home does make Anaya so helped, at least there are those who accompany her when Anaya's body is also not fully recovered.
However, this weekend because Tama is off, Mama Rina wants to go home first and clean up the house. Later on Monday, Mama Rina will come back. Because, Mama Rina believes Tama herself is so reliable. To help with parenting and also for housework, Tama is reliable.
"Mama came home first yeah .. later Mama came again Monday," said Mama Rina.
"Yes Ma ... Tama already thank you very much, have helped Mama," he replied.
"Tama-sama ... Mama can help you both. Enjoy the time to take care of the grandchildren," she replied.
"Thank you very much Mama ... Anaya wait for Monday well," Anaya replied.
Mama Rina nodded her head, "Yes .. later on Monday, Mama came again. If you need anything, Tama can be asked for help, Anaya. Don't hesitate. Although Tama is a man, but he can help you," replied Mama Rina.
"Definitely Ma ... during this time also Mas Tama has been very good with Anaya," said Anaya.
"Must be good. The husband belongs to his wife, and the wife belongs to her husband. So you must have each other. If anyone is sick, a healthy one is caring. That's how married life is," replied Mama Rina.
This is good advice. The third has entered the household heresy, husband and wife should indeed have each other, take care of each other. So, household life can run more harmoniously.
When Mama Rina came home, Tama asked her what she needed. As much as possible Tama tried to help Anaya.
"Just rest Mas .. You have been busy since morning. From starting to wash baby clothes, drying, and others. Until now, you have not rested" said Anaya who felt sorry for her husband.
"It's okay, moving around a lot, baby. Nothing, the point is you heal first, recover," Tama replied.
Anaya also laughed, "Clearly recovered .. This is also not so painful. It has been three weeks also Mas .. so it will quickly recover," Anaya replied.
"It's still time for puerperia, honey?" ask Tama again.
"Masih Mas .. I don't know what has to do with the loss of the uterus and the puerperium, just still," Anaya replied.
Tama looked at his wife, "Patience .. when do you want to go to the Hospital to check again?" ask Tama.
"May Mas .. same would ask that Hysterectomy total or in part. I read anyway, if it is a total yes I will be barren Mas ... do not have a uterus anymore, and also will not have menstruation again because the uterus has been removed," Anaya replied.
Tama listened carefully to his wife's story, there was a sense of pity as well. His wife who is still young and still in the productive age, actually had to experience something so heavy. Tama knew very well that mentally Anaya must be affected and must also be able to make peace with herself, making peace with the state that indeed the condition of her body is no longer the same. This is where the role of the greatest husband, restores Anaya mentally.
If the sick can be seen with the eyes, then it is easy to take care of it. Just like the wound to be cleaned and also used bandages until new skin tissue appears. However, if the sick is mental, it is something that cannot be seen with the eyes. All Tama can do is provide support, positive affirmations, and also give yourself to be a place to lean and tell stories for his wife.
"What do you feel, darling?" ask Tama. This is so that Tama also knows the condition of Anaya's feelings.
"I'm good Kok Mas .. is not as sad as before. Perhaps distracted by nurturing Trio C," he replied.
"If you feel sad and also stressed, time to give ASI to Twins, try to relax Honey. I read that breastfeeding can reduce a mother's stress levels" Tama said.
What Tama says is true, mothers who breastfeed have lower levels of stress and anxiety, as well as reduced negative moods. In addition, sleep patterns will also tend to be more stable and normal blood pressure. The hormone oxytocin released during breastfeeding can also help improve mother and baby bonding.
Anaya who was listening to him nodded her head, "Yes, I already felt it. I used to be depressed, healed one by breastfeeding Citra kok Mas. Ever since I breastfed Citra, it's like I found my dead son. Even if they are different. However, some days I felt calmer, I slept through the night, and I actually stopped taking anti-depressant drugs. So well, I've felt it, the impact of breastfeeding," Anaya replied.
"Motionally healthy mothers can make the baby healthier physically and cognitively as well" Tama said.
Anaya smiled, "This is what Bu Khaira told me yesterday when Mas aqiqah, we were talking together. She says that a mother's mental well-being has a direct impact on her baby. Therefore, it is very important for us to remember that women need to be supported, heard, and judged" Anaya said.
Then embrace his wife, "I will do that, My Love .. I will support you, listen to you, and not judge. Behind the success of breastfeeding activities, there is an active husband who provides support. Right?"
"Right, exactly."
Anaya answered and then laughed. Sometimes, jokes like this are also very good at improving his psychological condition. More than that, Anaya knew that her husband would always support, listen, and not judge her.
"Have your husband like this which makes me healthier and recover faster" Anaya replied.
"Must .. should be it. I will support you to successfully breastfeed until Charel and Charla turn 2. The spirit of Mama Anaya!"
"Papa Tama, please" Anaya replied by stealing a kiss on her husband's cheek.
Tama then glanced at his wife, "Don't kiss dear, danger. I'm tempted again later," Tama replied.
Anaya also chuckled amusedly, "Start again deh .. You are funny deh Mas. Honestly, your jokes are like gini, make me happy anyway. So, I also feel not too sad," he replied.
That's husband and wife, supporting each other and filling each other. There are times to put yourself in support of each other, listen to each other, and not need to judge each other.
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