Me And You For Us
Advice.

Mr. Darpha continued when he saw Kandara and his children silent, listening.

"Granpha does not mean to demean Oma and Mommy. What Grandpa means, is what Grandpa and Grandma have, that you can enjoy." Say Mr. Darpha again.

"Even if your Daddy lives in luxury, he never considers it a privilege. He lives and behaves like everyone else. Hang out, mingle with others, without seeing their social status." Said Mr. Darpha.

"Your Daddy would rather take public transportation to school, or a taxi if he sees Grandma getting worried."

"Grandpa must threaten not to go to school, if not to be picked up to school. Eventually he accepted, but on condition that the driver had to drop him off or pick him up away from school. Because he doesn't want his friends to know that he's from the family."

"Even he can support himself since he was in high school, because he has become an Idol."

"If Grandpa does not insist on paying for his college, he will pay for his own college." The story of Mr. Darpha, while remembering how to quarrel with Darel.

"During her Idol career, no one knew that she was Grandpa's child.

One time, a fellow Idol had a good temper, he stayed relaxed with his usual car."

"So Grandpa was ever angry, telling them to use the car at home or Grandpa to buy a new car. They say, again happy with their car that they bought themselves. If it's their car now, it's just they bought it almost a year ago." Said Mr. Darpha with a smile.

"So everything he had was not because his parents were rich, but that he fought for himself. He organized his life well, because Grandma approached him well."

"He manages his finances well too. Not just spending it. If he wants, he can buy a car like the one you were wearing. But for what, he knew his parents had and at any moment he could use them."

"But he never used everything he did not buy himself, at will. Though what Grandpa had, it also belonged to both of them."

"But he'll ask permission or ask Grandpa: 'Daddy, Darel's in the car, yeah..' Your dad makes a clear line, not just any or as he pleases.

"And surely all parents would say their child is good. We also said our son was good. We're grateful he's been in the music scene for so long, he's not involved in drinking and drugs or promiscuity that plagues him."

"That's our happiness as parents. Because many Idols fall into the negative, because their world often intersects with worrying things."

"Darel is also like a boy usually, he said,,. Yeah, I'd say naughty.., maybe. Because he was still in school, Grandpa often told Assistant to clear up his problems at the police station for fighting. Often because of Micah's problems. If anyone bothers Micah, yes . , the edges are battered."

"Either he is battered, or his opponent. More often, Grandpa has to pay his opponent's Hospital fee." Said Mr. Darpha with a smile recalling Darel's childhood and adolescence.

"It was very worrying for us, but now remembering everything he did can make us smile." Mr. Darpha continues to remember the childhood and adolescence of his two sons.

"Darel and Micah are two different persons. Micah's more patient, if Darel, no. He won't be silent if he feels overwhelmed or someone is hurting people around him." Said Mr. Darpha.

Ms. Selvine recalled the events at the Jagorawi Toll Rest Area. When Lucha tries to disturb Kandara. Ms. Selvine is getting more and more understanding of Darel, as well as Kandara. He recalled the events when Lucha's car followed him.

Suddenly Ms. Richel cut off Mr. Darpha's conversation.

"Sorry Grandpa, if Micah's patient, it's probably just Darel. In front of Darel, Micah would be very patient, to temper Darel's anger. Because he knows, Darel doesn't hesitate to fight with other people."

"Oooh, Mommy knows who.?" Ask Mr. Darpha surprised.

"From the Idol members, if they call Mommy to find Darel mommy say; just call Micah. They said; no need, they better wait for Brother Darel to talk to him." Said Mr. Richel again, Mr. Darpha was surprised to hear what Ms. Richel said.

*- Every good parent, knows his child well -*

"As Grandpa said.. Your father is not perfect, because no man is perfect. But you can learn, take the good things from your Daddy. Just as your Daddy learned and took good things from Grandpa."

"Grandpa knew that Ephra and Efri's lives would be different from yours.

If Darel can hide his identity as our son until he grows up. A few years ago, the public only found out that Darel was our son."

"But if it's for the two of you, Darel himself will open it to the public. Grandpa was very sure of that, so stay humble. Don't let you get cocky about your Daddy's whereabouts." Mr. Darpha said seriously, looking at Ephraim and Efrima.

"I don't know how much you know Darel. I hope that our children and grandchildren can live well and do a lot of good for many people. For goodness is the end of a love that lasts long."

"As Grandpa, your Daddy worked hard until now, not for himself. But for many who went with him. He's trying to get them in good shape."

"So Ms. Selvine, if she can take care of so many people well, let alone her wife and children. He'll definitely put them first." Said Mr. Darpha, and Ms. Selvine nodded with teary eyes.

"Daddy also hopes for Dara, a double understanding of the wife in general, so that when she is tired again do not add with simple problems or Dara can solve it yourself."

"Deddy's talking this way because you guys haven't been together very long. Maybe Dara doesn't know him very well. But Daddy believes Dara can support him."

"Daddy really hopes a lot for Dara, because as Daddy. We could be like this, because there's Mommy next to Daddy. Not look at his wealth, but understanding, understanding and trusting each other. This wealth is a bonus that God has given us."

"If Mommy, maybe like most wives in general. If something happens, you can call Daddy anytime to talk about it and make a decision together."

"Very different from Dara, there are times when Darel can not be contacted or slow response and Dara must decide for herself. Be wise with the children." Said Mr. Darpha, staring at Kandara.

"Daddy is convinced that Darel is trying to be a good husband and father to children." Said Mr. Darpha, Kandara and the children nodded with tears in their heads.

"Thank you, Daddy.., Mommy." Kandara said. Her two children moved and leaned their heads against Kandara's arms.

"After they start their careers, this is the time with us with the most. We are grateful to have Dara and the children. We were worried whether they were thinking about having a family, seeing their busy lives." Said Mr. Darpha, smiling and breathing a sigh of relief.

"Grandpa I think, quite first, tomorrow we will talk again." Said Mr. Darpha., looking at the eyes of his two grandchildren who were starting to dim.

"Yeah, tomorrow we'll talk about your wedding day, Dara. Let it be done quickly, so that it can arrange another one. So now let's take a break, so that tomorrow we can be fresh." Said Mr. Richel, agreeing to what Mr. Darpha said.

Mrs Selvine, Kandara and her two children nodded, then stood up while greeting.

*- Every parent will tell you proudly about their proud child -*